New Year's Eve Prep

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Our New Year's Eve party is tonight, obviously...duh! My friend, Chef Bobby Griffing is cooking. It's an Italian theme: venetian masks, black tie, lots of booze, drunken dancing...hopefully no regrets in the morning. The menu is beef carpaccio on baby greens with a homemade mayonnaise, made by Chef's big hands papperdelle with Italian sausage, mushroom risotto with roasted chicken and cannolis for dessert. I'm serving a champagne punch (in my nonexisting Target punch bowl that I ordered last week...fuckers! It still hasn't arrived, they are now on my hit list...little rant, sorry) that I found on Emily Evans Eerdman's blog. Plus, lots of other alcoholic libations. Liquor and music, liquor and music...that's my party mantra and secret weapon.



I have not figured out how I'm going to accessorize this ADAM dress I bought at shopbop. I have a black coral necklace I bought at Mignon Faget many eons ago...maybe I'll try this, but I can't find the earrings. I have this habit of taking off my jewelry all over the house. I need to make the rounds of all my pitstops. I have a charcoal crystal bracelet I got at Ruby Lola's, but it may be overkill. I think I'll wear my Manolo's I bought on Ebay...they are really comfortable and I can get my groove on in them. I promise no hair flipping. I will not dance like a hootchie mama tonight...a little bit of dignity...just a little.

The table is set...just waiting on my flower delivery.


The flowers just arrived...no Target punch bowl yet. I wasn't even going to use the punch bowl...I needed the cups...fuckers!

Probably what I'll look like tomorrow morning.

Stella looks enthusiastic, doesn't she? She's rockin' her new necklace in a sleepy stylin' kind of way. I wish you all a fantastic New Year's Eve. I give you license to punch in the face anyone who tells you, "I'll see you next year"...that so pisses me off!

Cheers!

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100 Aspects of my Life I'm Grateful For...finale

Tuesday, December 30, 2008
This has been an eye opening challenge. I suggest everyone do this...it's eye opening when so often we tend to focus on the negative. Thanks Molly...you are such a cool 17 year old chica!

67. Kissing, smooching, locking lips, making out, mugging (that's what we used to call it when I was in college. I have no idea why)

68. Growing into myself. The older I've gotten the less self conscious I am...which is very freeing. I yam what I yam, I is what I is...corny, I know.

69. I have great hair. My Mother told me that she actually prayed while she was pregnant that I would have good hair...her's is not so good. Apparently she has a direct line to God, because he granted her wish.

70. My husband is well endowed...nuff said...lucky me...(he told me to add that...men!)

71. I have a fairly high IQ. I don't use it, but I've got it.

72. I have an incredible support system. Any crazy idea or scheme I've tried, my family and friends have been right behind me.

73. I don't ever win anything therefore I don't enter contests, buy lottery tickets, gamble, etc. Is this something to be grateful for? Not sure, but at least I'm not losing money left and right.

74. Since we moved to Sun City, I've taken up tennis and I love it.

75. I've made friends with the chick who owned my house before I did. She's amazing. She taught me how to grill. Why did I ever think I couldn't master it? Now, I tivo Bobby Flay's show Boy Meets Grill.

76. I'm slowly but surely learning some Spanish. It's only taken me 35 frigging years. I'm Catholic...way lapsed...so I've been going to Catholic schools since pre-k. It was mandatory to take Spanish and I just sucked at it. Almost didn't graduate from college on time because of it. Finally my teacher felt sorry for me and asked me to tell him in Spanish...The cat is white. Thank god for pity.

77. I had a best friend growing up named Mandy. I loved her. She was like a sister. We were one year apart...she was older. I miss her.

78. My husband picks up all of the dog poop...chivalry is NOT dead!

79. Growing up, my parents insisted that we sit down as a family for dinner at 7pm. I bitched and moaned, but now, I'm really glad they enforced this law.

80. My Mother used to take me out of school on Fridays and we would have a day all to ourselves.

81. I'm involved in my local Slow Food convivium. I did not grow up on fast food. We typically didn't have soft drinks in the house. Food is to be enjoyed, not to be wolfed down.

82. I'm orgasmic...I've heard it really sucks if your not.

83. Shoes...I need them like I need air.

84. Change in 2009. I didn't vote for Obama, but I'm looking forward to the future.

85. I'm totally content that I didn't have children. My husband asked me several years ago what I wanted for Valentines Day and I told him I wanted him to have a vasectomy. I'm just not maternal. I'm glad I figured that out early and haven't wounded, alienated, fucked up any progeny along the way.

86. I have a sense of rhythm. I love to dance. Here's a funny story. I dressed up like Jake Gyllenhalls character in Brokeback Mountain two years ago for Halloween. My friend and I ended up at a gay bar and NO ONE would dance with me. Apparently I make a really ugly boy!


87. I don't work for anyone but me...I keep telling myself I'm a lazy employee.

88. I have decent sized boobs and I didn't have to pay for them. Lots of tamales are my secret!

89. Being punctual

90. Understanding a french menu.

91. I've always had a lot of "foodies" as friends. I hate that word...someone needs to come up with something more hip.

92. My husband is my best friend.

93. texting...I'm not a phone talker.

94. Being involved with my local Symphony...I chaired a fundraiser this year and I made money...which was a huge relief.

95. My book club...we meet once a month and I always look forward to it. Such a diverse group of woman.

96. I'm glad I'm female...did I say that before? I can't imagine having all of that junk in the way.

97. I'm glad I was a child in 1976 for the bicentennial. There was a contest in my neighborhood. People were allowed to paint on the fire hydrants...it had to be patriotic. It was cool and exciting to see what my neighbors came up with.

98. I'm fairly athletic although my husband would tell you that I'm not. So what if I can't throw a ball...when will I ever need this skill? I don't plan on ever being on Whale Wars. I can ski, play volleyball, do a 360 a wake board, play tennis, etc. Doesn't that qualify as being athletic?! And I could care less if I "run like a girl".

99. Learning to blog has been fun. I actually bought "Blogging for Dummies" and it just took off from there.

100. All of my Internet friends.

101. I believed in Santa until I was 12 1/2.

Shoe of the Day


Sergio Rossi Leila Jeweled and Satin Sandal...$1595.00

100 Things I'm Grateful For...Cont'd

Monday, December 29, 2008
Here goes the next 33...

34. I'm incredibly grateful that my parent's paid for braces. I know Molly over at Ashcan Rantings said that she opted out, but my teeth were amazingly fucked up. I even had to wear a headgear, sweet Jesus...worst experience of my life. My Siamese cat, Meshach would rub her head up against it at night and wake me up from the pain...I refused to wear it in daylight. But, it was worth it.

35. Sour Cream...I put it on everything...well, almost everything!

36. I'm glad I'm curvy. It has gotten me far.
37. Books

38. I have an incredibly dirty mind.

39. The years I had with my Grandfather. He was quite a man. He passed away in 2001.

40. I'm not squeamish around worms. Thanks to the above mentioned Grandfather. I've been fishing since I was a little girl. He hooked me up with a worm farm type thing that he would put old coffee grounds in. I could just dig in and pull out a zillion worms. I was set for the day.

41. Beautiful sunsets.

42. I truly like men. They aren't the enemy.

43. Speaking of number 42...I'm really glad my Mother likes my Husband. I've found from past experience that it's REALLY important.

44. I love throwing parties and I'm glad that people still want to come to them. My house is the house of "tossed to the wind inhibitions". I'm glad friends and family feel comfortable letting loose and having a good time.

45. Rainy days...but only once a month or so.

46. Our heated pool...it's like a bathtub in the Winter...which I DON'T have, a bathtub I mean...don't ask, I don't want to start ranting.

47. We have fabulous neighbors. I hope I haven't mentioned that one yet. Some are vigilant, others are incredibly fun. We are very fortunate. I know what it's like to dislike the people who live next door to you. This is so much better!

48. My husband makes me laugh. He's incredibly funny. I am too...but he doesn't think so!

49. My green eyes...they are NOT blue. I'm a decorator...I know my colors and I'm not colorblind.

50. The Rock...yes I'm talking about Dwayne Johnson...seriously. What's not to like!?

51. I'm a Texan through and through!
52. Which makes sense that I love football.

53. I'm grateful that I'm healthy. I've had mono...see comments at Ashcan Rantings. I've also had malaria. I caught it on a fishing trip in Los Roques, Venezuela. Other than that...no problems.

54. Growing up with access to a beach was great. I skipped quite a lot of school. You could find me at Surfside Beach in Galveston, TX...if you were looking.

55. I have no student loans...thanks to the parents.

56. I'm empathic. Sometimes in a melodramatic way, but so fucking what.

57. I have no addiction problems. I drink too much, but I'm more upset by the calories imbibed than the fumes.

58. Other than the 1 one night stand, I've slept with three men, and I loved them all.

59. I've had fairly good experiences with all of my design clients. I did have a horrible experience during the Enron crisis...horrible enough to bring on a touch of agoraphobia, but overall, I've made friends with most of my clients. I've been very fortunate.

60. My husband makes an excellent living and he saves lives to boot. I'm very proud of him.

61. I'm a great shot. I'll beat you at skeet shooting. I have a healthy ego.

62. I've never been sexually assaulted. I didn't realize what a big deal that is. 1 in 4 women can't say the same. That is truly sad.

63. Ave Maria...I love that hymn.

64. I'm an excellent cook thanks to my Mother.

65. I'm thankful for living in Sun City...I grow my own tomatoes, peppers and basil.

66. I have blonde hair on my legs...which is a godsend!

Tomorrow the rest...

Shoe (s) of the Day


Barney's NY CO-OP Gemina Leopard Flat...ON SALE for $159.00

Fendi Medallion T-Strap Sandal NOT ON SALE $740.00


Shoe of the Day

Sunday, December 28, 2008
These Pella Moda Sandals have such a disco vibe to me...they also come in gold! I'm still trying to be fiscally responsible...$180.00

Home, James!

We are home again...after a 3 hour delay at the airport, catching a cab at midnight and then realizing that we had forgotten the gate opener, so therefore mi hombre had to climb over the fence...smooshed testies, Ouch! I couldn't watch. It was a great Christmas at my parents. I reverted back to teenanger hood ( and slept for 12 hours almost every night...which is just wrong!) Maybe the three meals a day (which I never have at home) and the bottles of wine and many champagne cocktails had something to do with it...as well as the constant grazing...Moo!



I really enjoy cooking with my Mother...she was an excellent teacher. I don't enjoy banging my head on all of the pots. We had a conversation about that, but it's her kitchen...to each her own!One trait of mi madre's is that she's never been one to shy away from trying new recipes, no matter what the occasion. We had a lovely Christmas dinner...a beautiful pork crown roast with a wild rice stuffing, a leak and wild mushroom sauce (new recipe), corn casserole (new recipe), yeast rolls, haricort verts (really just green beans with lots of bacon and drippings) and an incredible tres leche cake.






Molly, over at her very smart, hip blog Ashcan Rantings, posted a challenge of sorts and it intrigued me . What are 100 aspects of your life that you are grateful for? This really got me thinking and I immediately tackled the project on the plane to Houston. At first I thought 100 things would be hard, but actually I could have gone on and on...lucky me! So...I'm going to bore the blogosphere with 33.3333 things that I'm grateful for everyday until New Year's Eve. I hope I don't embarrass anyone...the order is very random.



  1. I am grateful that I married my ex-husband...which seems strange, but if I had not married him, I never would have met my brother-in-law.
  2. I'm grateful that I took that fateful phone call late that night in 1996. I learned at that moment that my life would change forever.
  3. I'm grateful that I spit in the face of social mores and married my brother-in-law. This super hot, sexy man who makes me feel like a woman worth loving.
  4. Chateauneuf du Papes...the drink of the gods!
  5. Stella, Lola and Luigi...my lovely whippet, greyhound and stray kitty who turns his nose up at shrimp.
  6. I love being an only child. I've always had close friends growing up. I was never lonely. I love being the center of attention.
  7. My best friend...my Mother.
  8. I am so grateful that my step-father loved me enough to adopt me. He has been incredibly supportive. He has also bailed me out of a lot of interesting situations.
  9. I have a broad variety of friends and they are all wonderful and unique.
  10. I HAD an IGFA Fly Fishing World Record for a giant trevally that I caught in the Christmas Islands in 1999. It was 28lbs. 11 ounces and I caught it on 12lb. tippet. My 15 minutes of fame lasted all of two months before someone snagged the trophy from me. Not only was this one of the best memories of my life, but it also made me see that my husband is my biggest cheerleader and he thinks I'm a cool chick.
  11. I love, love, love being an interior decorator. No, I'm not a designer. I'm a card carrying, dues paying allied member of ASID (American Society of Interior Designers) and I've had my own business since 1998, but I am legally not allowed to call myself an "interior designer" because I haven't taken the NCIDQ...see number 12.
  12. Never ever having to take another ridiculous test that is supposed to define my worth again in my life.
  13. I am grateful for my mentor Tim Hamrock...who was an excellent decorator in Houston. He told me to get a divorce, pursue the man I love, go back to school at The Art Institute and work for him until I graduated and then "get out there woman and start your own business".
  14. Flowers!
  15. I am grateful for all of the traveling I have been able to do in my life. The best memories I have are a trip to Mutters, Austria as a child, and Alphonse Island, Seychelles as an adult.
  16. I love my house. I'm very fortunate. I didn't even find it. My husband did. Fancy that! It's great to have a man who knows your tastes so much that he can put a contract on a house after looking at it for 5 minutes and right after having worked a night shift. He immediately knew that I would love it.
  17. When the cork pops out a bottle of champagne. I know it isn't couth to allow this vulgarity to happen, but so fucking what! It gives me great pleasure.
  18. Botox!!
  19. Tex-Mex...I live on the border of Texas and Mexico. I can see two states and another country from my backyard. Real Mexican food is just not the same as greasy Tex-Mex. And Mother of God...I am jonesing for some dippable Chile con Queso!
  20. Only having one One Night Stand...once was enough...
  21. The diversity of music...I love most music. Prince, Sinead O'Connor and Stevie Ray Vaughan are some of my favorites. But, if you check out my playlist, you'll see that most music has a place in my world.
  22. My husband's "lapdance" playlist on our iPod. And no...it isn't me doing the gyrating!
  23. The Internet...what the hell did we ever do without it!? I bet encyclopedia salesmen are really pissed off as well as map makers and a slew of other professions.
  24. I have average size feet. It's never a problem finding shoes...Oh, and I have pretty toes too. A salesman at Lord & Taylor told me that when I was 16. I followed him to Neimans and then to Saks. I've known this guy for 24 frigging years. Foot fetishists make the best shoes salesmen!
  25. My grandparent's lakehouse in East Texas in the piney woods. I have more good memories I could possibly ever count.
  26. High School is over and I never have to return. Although I did attend my 20 year reunion and it wasn't so bad.
  27. I love my racy red sports car.
  28. I'm grateful that I look like my Mother. I had these humongous rollers in my hair the other day and I walked past a mirror and holy shit...there she was!
  29. I'm grateful that I'm an American...Rah Rah Sis Boom Bah!
  30. I adore my housekeeper. Unfortunately, she doesn't speak English and I don't speak Spanish. But it's turned into one of those friendships where words are not important.
  31. I live in a community where I can leave my doors unlocked. I typically don't, but if I wanted, I could.
  32. My iPod...it rocks!
  33. Comedian Mitch Fatel...this is one funny, horny bastard!





Tomorrow, the next 33. Cheers, mi amigos!

Flip Flop of the Day

Saturday, December 27, 2008

$20 Buckaroos...I don't know about ya'll, but I'm broke!

Au Revoir Cat Woman - Eartha

Friday, December 26, 2008
Eartha Kitt was the Catwoman I knew. She exuded raw sexuality...she will be missed.







Shoe of the Day

Brown Croc...$839.00

Amy!! We Luv Ya!!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

She looks better, she MUST be feeling better...get her back into the studio...we miss you!

Shoe of the Day...Could this be Rudolph??!!

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Gigi Favela Barbarella Sandal...$862.95

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Shoe of the Day

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Love the tortoise look...Jimmy Choo Prosper Sandal $875.00

My Gift To You...

Tuesday, December 23, 2008
We are going to be visiting my family for several days, so I won't be posting for a while. "Shoe a Day" will continue to thrive...thanks to post dating. I was shown this, thanks to a friend on Open Salon. You may have already seen it, but it just makes me laugh until tears are streaming down my face no matter how many times I watch it. Oh...and Meadow Soprano is in it!! So Happy Holidays to everyone...be safe, be merry, be frisky!



Cheers!

Shoe of the Day



ALEXANDER MCQUEEN - Embroidered ankle strap Shoe - $1119.00

Feels very Matador to me...similar to the Louboutins last season.

Sunset on the Border

Monday, December 22, 2008

Punch Bowls Galore

I'm having a New Year's Eve party this year and instead of having a full bar, I'd like to have a champagne punch...as well as wine with dinner (we aren't lightweights), but that's another thing all together. I was browsing Emily Evans Eerdmans' blog (which is fabulous and informative) and I found a fantastic recipe for said punch. The gods are smiling down on me! But, alas, I realized I have no punch bowl...egads! So, I've done some PI work for you.



Crate and Barrel Punch Set $36.95 with 8 cups

Target has 13 styles of punch bowls ranging from $14.99 to $124.99. Just click on the previous link and it will take you to the punch bowl page.


Pewter Classic Punch Bowl with Ladle $124.99





I'm leaning towards the Libbey Glass 10-piece set which includes bowl, ladle and 8 cups. Nice clean design for only $39.99. Well...I just ordered the 10 piece set and an extra set of 12 glasses. My total is $75.02 with shipping. Not bad for impulse shopping!



Tabula Tua Punch Bowl by Match Pewter $775.00







Neiman Marcus has a beautiful heirloom quality sterling silver punch bowl set...15 Piece Grand Baroque by Wallace Silversmiths. This baby will set you back $1119.60. It's actually marked down from $1800.00 so it's kind of a bargain, right? It's beautiful...and it's marked down more at Neimans than either Bed, Bath & Beyond or Macy's...so there you Needless Markup naysayers!




Etsy has a very cool folksy Mermaid Punch bowl for $120.00. There is only one more in stock. They also have a couple of vintage bowls...punch, that is.




1st Dibs has quite a few options...most out of my price range...like in the stratosphere...but they have given me a great idea and now I wish I hadn't jumped the gun on the Target number. I have a beautiful Chinese bowl that we throw our car keys, my lipstick, money clips, mail, sunglasses...all the detritus from a day away from home. This would make a beautiful punch bowl...and I can use the glasses I ordered from Target with it...voila!




This green one is on the 1st Dibs site also and it's only $395. It's Vincente Wolf Home...love the color.



Now that I've figured out my punch bowl conundrum, I've kind of lost interest. What can I say...I'm not trying to save the World one punch bowl at a time. I'm sure there are millions to be found on Ebay, but if you don't feel like going thru millions of dusty gramma punch bowls...here is a selection I found on ShopStyle.



Cheers!

Lola in Bliss

If only I could be this free! She always reminds me of The Werewolves of London when she decides to pose.

Shoe Of The Day

Love the added bit of metallic...$735.00 at Neiman Marcus

What I Want for Christmas

Sunday, December 21, 2008
I was reading Imbibe magazine and saw this liqueur...it sounds great. Different from the now ho-hum elixirs I typically drink. Domaine de Canton is a ginger flavored liqueur. There are a lot of recipes on their site...a variation of a Pimm's Cup in particular sounds heavenly, as well as others...but I found this one and it is easy, light and refreshing. Now, I just need to get my hands on a bottle.

Canton 75
1 part Canton Liqueur
3 parts Champagne
Squeeze the juice of a lemon wedge or add a dash of lemon bitters. Garnish with a lemon peel. Serve in a champagne flute.
Cheers!

Russell Brand - Incredibly Sexy, but I'm Not sure Why...

Shoe of the Day

Fetish Pump found at SexyHiHeels for $74.00

Tom Cruise - Dance Commanda

Saturday, December 20, 2008

TASSELISCIOUS

Tassel Shop in a Moroccan Souk - Tassel Heaven


Mariano Fortuny - an artist in all aspects of the word - a true Renaissance man...Painter, Photographer, Lighting Designer, Theatre Set Design, Fashion Designer, Textile Designer. He was infinitely talented. I am addicted to Fortuny light fixtures as most feature beautiful tassels... Fortuny fabric is awe inspiring. I have 5 light fixtures and I need more. I think they are beautiful works of art. I was browsing the Venetia Stvdivm website and found that they now have gift items that feature tassels. I have no idea where this tassel mania of mine came from.



Such a great vintagey bag!


I'm coveting this floor lamp. Next acquisition! The detail is just incredible. And of course it has three tassels...which makes it even better. The light fixtures can be purchased online at Lightology. I've found them occasionally on Ebay as well.


My Mother bought this hanging fixture for me in Venice for my 28th birthday.


The Concubina Series has such a cool chinoiserie Asian feel.

Some beautiful detailed antique pieces found on 1st Dibs include this Pair of Exquisite Chinese Cloisonne Enamel Elephants. China circa 1860. Notice the studded multicolored trappings to the head over the back with tasseled blankets. These can be yours for $48,000.00

This fantastic French Mid 19th Century Victorian Birdcage has beautifully carved detail, including hanging tassels along the bottom. Yours for $18,500.00

Hollywood Regency Iron Baluster with a Tassel Motif...$1200.00.


19th. Painted Tole and Reverse Painted Mirror Statue Stand...France 1820. I love all of the tassel detail on this piece.
$5800.00





Carl Moore Antiques in Houston never fails to surprise me with beautiful items. They have a fantastic website. I found this Louis XVI style cast brass sconce from France featuring a cord with two tassels looped over a medallion with a pair of candle arms. $325.00




A Contemporary item...the Baker Tassel Bench from the Thomas Pheasant Collection





Tassels in fashion...love the vintage vibe they inspire...John Galliano Collection Fall 2008


Anna Sui 2006 Spring Collection




Alberta Ferretti Spring 2009 Collection - which I absolutely adore...such a Jazzy feel.






The Frock has amazing vintage pieces. He truly researches each item. Notice the tassel trim along the bottom of this incredible black cocoon cloak and the silver tassels decorating the black dress.


Fabulous Silver Tassel Detail

More Great Items featuring Tassels...


Agent Provocateur has some very cheeky pasty tassels.


I'll leave you with Elvira...she rocks the tassels!